Shy Guy Dating Advice
I am a shy person, and I must admit it severely impacted my dating for a very long time. I didn’t understand that shy people can date actively and effectively, and even if I had I would not have known how to go about it! It is very possible regardless of shy you are. Even if you are self conscious because you think you are ugly or you stutter or whatever.
Now if you are a stunningly attractive female you will have no problem dating. You’ll have other problems for sure, as the knockouts I’ve met the past few years prove. If you are a man, whether you are considered very attractive or not, it is much more difficult. Women’s lib or not, it is still the man who needs to initiate things 90% of the time. That is neither good nor bad. It is just the way it is. Even if you are a rich handsome dude with a Ferrari, it is harder than if you are a poor yet cute woman. But even if you are poorer, average or below in many aspects, it is possible to have massive dating success.
As a shy guy, there are several things you can do to increase your success.
You will not like the first, and it is not essential, but becoming less shy will help. Don’t worry about it because it WILL happen naturally as you see more success. And if it doesn’t, no problem, you can still do well.
So how do you get dates as a shy guy? Meeting people, especially desirable females, can be much harder. Look, I’ll probably never even try to stop a drop dead gorgeous woman walking down the street, engage her in banter, hopefully get her contact info, and then eventually sleep with her and maybe even marry her. I’m just not going to even try – I am shy.
However, I have met many beautiful women, had relationships with some of them, and instead become good friends with a few others usually due to my desires. I’ve put a few hotties in my “friend zone” because I didn’t think it would work. I could not have imagines this just a few years ago. And have you noticed that hot women usually have other hot female friends, and if you are a friend of a friend, well you are not a stranger and they will usually initiate contact and are very inclined to like you.
Take a look at Meeting Women - The Easiest and Best Ways . I may never approach drop dead gorgeous women I have no connection to (so called “cold approaches”) in public, but I have met some through Internet Dating, Speed Dating, and other methods I’ll be writing about here.
It doesn’t matter if you are shy. You can learn to be successful dating. And without doing widely uncomfortable things! Stay tuned for regular updates on things that WILL work for you!